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Domestic
Violence or family violence is the abuse of power or
control . It is behavior used by one person to control
another through force or threats. A batterer makes a
choice to strike, hit, kick, punch or threaten the victim.
Domestic
violence includes physical and sexual attacks and threats.
These violent acts are criminal and the batterer can be
prosecuted for committing them. The acts are a means of
controlling the victim's thoughts, feelings and behavior.
The violence does not lessen over time. The threats and /
or beatings generally happen more often with time, last
longer and cause greater physical injuries.
Emotional
abuse and insulting words are almost always part of the
abuse pattern, but are not considered criminal acts. The
wounds from these injuries, however , may be more
difficult to heal.
Domestic
violence is not caused by or provoked by the actions or
inaction's of the victim. Domestic violence is not
directly caused by alcohol or drug abuse, depression, lack
of money, lack of a job, mental illness or abuse as a
child. However, existing problems often create additional
stress in a relationship and may increase the risk of
violence. Many abusers blame the victim or other things
for their violent acts and do not take responsibility for
the abusive behavior. There is never an excuse for
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Frequent Questions About Domestic Violence
WHAT IS THE
LEGAL DEFINITION OF ABUSE ?
Chapter 209A, the
Massachusetts Abuse Prevention Act, defines abuse as :
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- actual
physical abuse, or
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- an attempt to
harm another, or
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- placing
another in fear of serious physical harm, or
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- causing
another to engage in sexual relations by force, threat of
force or duress.
WHAT IS A 209A ORDER ?
An Abuse
Prevention Order, called a "209A Order," or a "protective
order," or "restraining order," is a civil court order
intended to provide protection from physical or sexual harm
caused by force or threat of harm from a family or household
member. You can obtain an order against:
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- a spouse or
former spouse
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- a present or
former household member
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- a relative by
blood or a present or former relative by marriage
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- the parent of
your minor child
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- a person with
whom you have or had a substantial dating relationship.
WHERE CAN I GET A 209A ORDER ?
A 209A Order can
be obtained in any District Court, Superior Court , or Probate
and Family Court in Massachusetts. An emergency 209A Order can
be obtained through any police department after court hours,
on weekends and holidays. You do not need a lawyer to file for
a 209A Order4 and there is no charge for filing.
HOW CAN I GET AN ORDER IN DISTRICT COURT ?
Should you decide
to go to a District Court for a 209A Order, you may go to the
District Court in the area where you live or, if you have fled
to another area to avoid abuse, you may go to the District
Court in the area where you now live. Go to the Clerk's Office in the court
and ask for a "protective order" or a "209A Order," You will
receive a packet of forms to complete as an application for a
protective order.
In some courts,
there may be a Court Advocate from a local battered women's
service agency to help you with the form. A Victim/Witness
Advocate from the District Attorney's Office is also usually
available for assistance and to discuss the option of filing
criminal charges against your abuser. Ask someone at the
Clerk's Office to direct you to the District Attorney's
Victim/ Witness Office for help. You do not have to file
criminal charges in order to obtain a 209A Order. However,
criminal charges can be helpful in holding a batterer
responsible for criminal acts committed against you . If there
is a criminal violation, the Court can also require a batterer
to obtain counseling or other treatment.
WHAT QUESTIONS ARE ASKED ON THE FORM ?
On the
application or complaint forms for a 209A order, you need to
make a sworn statement (affidavit) describing the facts of any
recent or past incidents of abuse. It is important to provide
as much information about the abuser as possible. You must
also disclose any other existing 209A Orders from any court or
any Probate Court action you are involved in, including any
divorce or child custody proceedings.
WHAT RELIEF CAN I ASK FOR ON THE APPLICATION ?
You may request
the judge to order that the abuser:
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- stop or
refrain from abusing you
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- have no
contact with you or a child in your custody
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- vacate or
move out of the house or apartment where you live.
You may also
request the judge to order that you receive support and
temporary custody of your children, if the abuser has a legal
duty to support or shares custody. You may request payment for
medical costs incurred due to injuries caused by the abuser
and related loss of wages. You may ask that the abuser not
contact you at work or at a relative's home, and that your new
address be kept confidential from the abuser for your safety.
WHAT ABOUT CHILD CUSTODY AND VISITATION ?
A 209A Order from
a District Court can provide you with temporary support and
custody of your minor children. Only the Probate and Family
Court , however, can decide child visitation rights. A 209A
Order from that court may be more helpful in dealing with
abuse protection that also involves divorce, long term
financial support, child custody and visitation issues. You
may want to speak with a private attorney for Probate Court or
call one of the legal services or victim's services listed on
this brochure for an attorney referral list. Pro bono (free)
or reduced fee legal services may be available.
WHAT HAPPENS NEXT ?
After you have
completed the 209A complaint or application forms, return them
to the Clerk's Office and ask when the judge will hear the
applications for protective orders. The Clerk's Office will
tell you the time and courtroom location for your hearing.
At your hearing,
the judge will ask why you need a protective order and will
review your complaint or application forms and affidavit. The
judge will be deciding whether it appears there is a
substantial likelihood of immediate danger of abuse. He or she
will probably ask you some clarifying questions. In some
court's, a "209A Briefing Session " is held before the hearing
and a Court Advocate or a District Attorney's Victim / Witness
Advocate will explain the hearing process and be with you in
the courtroom.
WHAT WILL THE JUDGE DO BEFORE SPEAKING WITH YOU ?
The judge may
grant or deny the 209A Order after speaking with you. If the
judge grants the Order, you will receive a Temporary Order for
up to ten days. A court date will be scheduled within 10 court
days for you to return to court for a Permanent Order, which
lasts for a year and can be renewed. Keep your copy of the
Order with you at all times. The judge will also order the
abuser to surrender all guns and gun permits he or she
possesses.
The police will
deliver (serve) a copy of the Order to your abuser and will
keep a copy on file at the police station. It is important to
provide the abuser's home, work, or other likely addresses so
that the police can serve the Order as quickly as possible and
provide the required notice of the next court date.
A violation of
certain terms of a 209A Order (orders to vacate the premises,
refrain from abuse and have no contact with you) requires that
the police arrest your abuser.
A violation
of a 209A Order, once the abuser has notice of the Order, is a
criminal offense.
WHAT IS A TEN DAY HEARING ?
The Ten Day
Hearing requires that you return to the court on the date
given on the Order. If you do not return to court, the Order
will not be in effect after that date. The hearing offers the
chance for both parties, you and the abuser, to come before
the judge and offer information (evidence) as to why a
permanent 209A Order, which lasts for one year, should or
should not be granted. Bring any hospital records, photographs
or police reports you may have for the judge to review. You
may also bring a support person with you. The abuser may be
present at the ten day hearing and may oppose the 209A Order .
If the abuser is not present and has been served with the
Order, the judge can still grant the Order for one year
period.
WHAT HAPPENS AT THE END OF A YEAR OR END OF THE EFFECTIVE
DATE ?
If a 209A
Order is issued by the judge for a year, you must return to
the court for an extension of the Order at the end of that
year or the Order will expire.
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE THE TERMS OF
THE ORDER ?
Any changes
in the Order before that date must be made with both you and
the abuser appearing in the same court where the Order was
first given. A request to change or amend the Order can be
made at the Clerk's Office, and a hearing will be arranged
before a judge.
CAN A MINOR OBTAIN A 209A ORDER ?
A minor
under 18 years old can obtain a 209A Order with some
restrictions. Generally, a parent or guardian needs to be
present, but the judge can decide to issue a 209A Order
without a parent present if the minor appears to be in danger.
In some cases, the
Department of Social Services
may offer assistance in gaining help for a minor. Many high
schools and colleges also offer support groups for students in
violent relationships. A parent may also obtain a protective
order for his or her child.
WHAT HAPPENS IF THE ORDER IS VIOLATED ?
Once a 209A Order
is issued, violation of certain terms of the Order is a
criminal offense. Violations of orders to refrain from abuse ,
to have no contact, and to vacate a household, multiple family
dwelling or workplace, can be prosecuted criminally under
chapter 209A. If the abuser violates the order, call the
police immediately. Show the Order to the police and explain
how it was violated ( a punch, slap, threat; entering your
house or apartment or refusing to vacate; or, any contact with
you at home or your workplace, either in person, by telephone
or mail). The police must arrest the abuser if they believe or
can see that the terms of the Order were violated. If you do
not call the police, you may be able to file an application
for a criminal complaint on your own at the Clerk's Office in
the District Court. A Victim/Witness Advocate can assist you
with that process.
If you put
yourself in contact with the abuser, he is vulnerable to
arrest. Therefore, if you want any terms of the order to no
longer apply, you should return to court and ask that the
order be modified or vacated.
WHAT HAPPENS IF AN ARREST IS MADE ?
If the abuser is
arrested, seek assistance from the Victim/ Witness Advocate in
the District Attorney's Office the next morning after a
nighttime arrest, or at any time during the day at the
courthouse. A Victim/Witness Advocate will explain what the
charges mean and what will happen next. The Advocate will also
offer ongoing information, referral for services and cases
updates throughout the time the case is in court.
WHAT CRIMES CAN BE CHARGED ?
In addition to
the crime of violating a 209A Order, an abuser can be charged
with a number of other crimes committed at or near the time of
the violation, some of which may include:
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- Assault
(G.L. c. 265, Section 13A), which is an attempt or
offer to do bodily
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injury by force or violence or attempt to batter.
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- Assault
and Battery ( G.L. c. 265, Section 13A), which is a
harmful or
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unjustified touching of another, no matter how slight,
without a legal right to do
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so.
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- Assault
and Battery by Means of a Dangerous Weapon ( G.L. c.
265,
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Section 15), which is a battery with a dangerous weapon,
such as a baseball bat,
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a
shod foot, a knife or other object either inherently
dangerous or used in a way
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that may cause serious injury or death to another.
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- Threats
(G.L. c. 27, section 4), which are verbal or written
threats to do harm
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which a victim reasonably believes the abuser can commit.
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Trespassing ( G.L. c. 266, section 120), which is
entering or remaining in a
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house or on land in violation of a 209A Order.
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Malicious Destruction Of Personal Property (G.L. c.
266, section 127),
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which is the destruction of or injury to personal property,
a house or building in a
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manner that is willful and malicious.
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Stalking (G.L. c. 265, section, 43 (a)), which is
the willful, malicious and
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repeated following or harassing of an individual and the
making of threats with the
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intent to place that person in imminent fear of death or
serious bodily injury. The
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penalties are greater for a conviction of a stalking crime
committed in violation of
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a
209A Order.
WHAT HAPPENS
AFTER AN ARREST ?
Once a criminal
complaint has been issued or an arrest made, the abuser will
be charged with the crime or crimes at an arraignment
proceeding in the District Court. A bail hearing will be held
to determine whether the defendant/abuser will be released
from custody, the court must make a reasonable effort to
notify you of the release, even if you are not present in
court.
WHAT HAPPENS AT THE ARRAIGNMENT ?
It is important
to provide information to the Assistant District Attorney
before the arraignment and bail hearing regarding the history
of the abuse and a description of the most recent abuse,
including any pictures or hospital records of injuries. You
should also mention the location of any guns or other weapons
that you believe the abuser has in his or her possession.
The Assistant
District Attorney ill bring this information to the attention
of the judge, along with your safety concerns and fears at
this time. The judge may also consider whether the defendant/
abuser should be jailed until trial; or, if the defendant/
abuser is to be released, what the bail and conditions of bail
will be.
The Assistant
District Attorney represents the Commonwealth of Massachusetts
in prosecuting the case , and works with the Victim/Witness
Advocate to address your interests and assist you during
trial.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THE ARRAIGNMENT ?
Interviews will
be held with you before the trial, to gather information and
evidence for prosecution. Every effort will be made to
consider your needs and safety in going forward with the case.
The safety of your children will also be priority .
Prosecution may
provide the means to gain batterer's intervention services for
the defendant/abuser as part of a sentence recommendation.
Very few batterer's seek or stay with these services on their
own, without court orders and probation supervision. An
Assistant District will speak with you about different
sentences that can be imposed if the defendant /abuser is
found guilty by a judge or jury or pleads guilty. The sentence
asked for may include drug or alcohol counseling, required
attendance at a batterer's intervention program, supervised
probation and /or jail time.
WHAT IS A CERTIFIED A BATTERER'S INTERVENTION PROGRAM ?
Certified
batterer's intervention programs provide services in very
strict group settings to try to help batterer's learn to
accept responsibility for their violence, as well as
understand and change their controlling and abusive behavior.
The groups are
led by certified batterer's intervention counselor's trained
in dealing with domestic violence offenders. The programs work
with the courts and victim services to help make sure that
partners of batterer's remain safe. The programs may involve
weekly sessions of 1 to 2 hours in length. The batterer must
participate in the program for a minimum of 80 hours. Group
leaders feel your safety is a priority concern and will keep
ongoing contact with you.
WILL THE INTERVENTION STOP THE ABUSE ?
There are no
guarantees that the violence will stop because the abuser
attends a certified batterer's intervention program. Many
abusers drop out of programs or do not comply with the
requirements, or only reduce their abuse temporarily. If the
judge requires attendance as part of a sentence, dropping out
may mean the defendant/ abuser may have to serve jail time.
The abuser must want to change the abusive behavior and work
hard at making those changes. Promises to change, flowers and
apologies are not enough. You deserve to be safe and free from
abuse.
- YOUR RISK OF HARM -
Statistically,
the most dangerous time for victim is when leaving the
batterer. The abuser may feel he is losing control and become
dangerously angry. Take steps to protect yourself from abuse
or punishment from your abuser. Please trust your instincts.
If you are afraid that something may happen, take your
feelings seriously and protect yourself. You know your
situation better than anyone else.
- SUGGESTIONS
FOR PROTECTION -
Develop a safety
plan that includes an escape plan for you and your children
should a violent incident occur. During an incident, try to
move away from an area or room where access to weapons might
increase your risk, such as the kitchen, or where you can be
trapped or easily injured.
Call the police
or leave the house as soon as possible after an abusive
incident. The police will respond and stay with you until you
are safe or in a safe place. The police will also help you
seek medical treatment, if needed. If you feel you may be in
danger, dial the police number and hang up before it rings, so
that the redial button will automatically call the police if
you need them quickly.
Be alert when
leaving the courthouse. If you have any reason to believe your
abuser may be waiting for you, please ask someone in the
District Attorney's Office or Court Advocate to help. A police
officer or a court officer may be able to escort you to your
car.
Guns or weapons
will be ordered turned over to the police by the judge, along
with any license to carry the guns and firearms identification
card. Inform the police of any guns/weapons the abuser may
keep in the house.
Consider changing
the locks on your home. The judge can order the abuser to turn
over the keys to your home and/or your car. Keep an extra set
of keys in a safe place.
Inform your
neighbors if a 209A order is in place. Encourage them to call
the police if they see or suspect that something is wrong.
Make copies of
important papers and keep them in a safe place. Make a list of
the things you need to take with you (birth/medical records,
marriage license, check/ bank books, credit cards,
medications).
Keep emergency
money and extra clothes for yourself and your children in a
safe place or with someone you trust. Include a few toys and
favorite things for the children.
Keep the victim's
service agency number handy for emergency shelter and for
support groups.; You do not have to leave the abuser or have a
209A Order to attend the support groups. Information and
support in making decisions are important.
Get Medical
attention as you may be injured much more seriously than you
realize. Go to a hospital emergency room or your private
doctor as soon as possible for treatment. Ask for a copy of
the treatment record.
Have pictures
taken of your injuries and bruises at the hospital, police
department, shelter or District Attorney's Office.
Any further questions should be directed
to Plainville Police Departments
Domestic Violence Officer - Sgt. Corrina
Carter at (508) 699-1212.
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